Lola at age 27 with Arthur, the author’s older sibling, before arriving at the U.S. My buddy Arthur was created in 1951. We arrived next, accompanied by three more siblings in quick succession. My parents expected Lola to be as dedicated to us children as she would be to them. While she cared for us, my moms and dads went along to college and attained advanced level levels, joining the ranks of a lot of other people with fancy diplomas…