My advice is to keep him straight away. He’s perhaps not well well well worth a nanosecond of energy. You don’t deserve to be addressed that way. Relationships should be constructed on trust, love, compromise and respect that is mutual. You can’t trust him because of their deplorable behavior and also by the noises from it you have got none of this remainder of why is a good relationship. Vile, cheating, abusive, manipulating scum like this don’t deserve any relationships…